Saturday, 4 April 2026

'This is Me!'

 

‘I am not a stranger to the dark,
"Hide away, " they say “Cause we don't want your broken parts" I've learned to be ashamed of all my scars "Run away, " they say "No one'll love you as you are"’.

( ‘This is me’ from ‘The Greatest Showman’)

One of the difficulties that poor, developing countries such as Tanzania have is caring for the less abled members of the community. (This would have been the same in the UK until the 20th century). For poor, struggling families,  every member of the family including children have to work to raise enough food to survive. The birth of a child with a physical disability, or caused as a result of common childhood disease such as polio, measles or rubella, is a catastrophe here. Such diseases once feared in the west even a century ago are now rarely a problem in the UK as a result of health care and vaccination. In countries with limited and unaffordable health care they are seen as a curse, and families will often hide the affected person to avoid shame. A disability is seen as preventing someone contributing to their community and supporting themselves. To survive the person often has to resort to begging.



It was to help those with disabilities to earn a living, and to demonstrate to the Community that they can contribute to society that Ben and Katy Ray came Tanzania to take over the management of a workshop and café in Iringa employing about 100 adults with physical or hearing disability. Staff have worked at Neema Crafts for several years and most now own their own homes, and are now welcomed into shops when previously they would probably have been rejected. (See our blogs from previous visits to Tanzania in 2017/18 and 2019 for further information)



About 3 years ago Ben and Katy and family moved to Arusha to set up a similar charity (SAFI – Seeing Ability First International) which currently employs about 25 adults and growing.


The newest ‘business’, opening just before Christmas, is a café which is mainly staffed by those with severe hearing problems. All the waiters, cleaners and reception staff are deaf as are several of the cooks. It offers good quality European style food which is attractive to middle class Tanzanians, ex-pats and tourists.




Last weekend the school that Ben and Katy’s children attend held a sports day. The whole family is extremely athletic (unlike Malcolm!). Ben and Katy both won their respective 'Sprint' Triathlon events (500m swimming, 15km cycling and 5 km running) crossing the finishing line together. The eldest son, Zaki came third in the age 7-9 team Triathlon and Alessia second in her team event.







One of the refreshment stands at the event was operated by SAFI staff, serving large ‘Smash burgers’, cakes and coffee. Adolf is the café’s cooking teacher, and Gloria and Rahel are 2 of the waiters. The stand was so busy that they didn’t even have time to eat their own lunches!!









On the last day of term the school put on a version of the Musical ‘The Greatest Showman, which is loosely based on the life of PT Barnum. One of the core messages of the show is that everyone is of value no matter their ability. The opening quotation to this blog is sung by the circus’s Bearded Lady and the other ‘Freaks’ who make up the cast of the circus.

To empasise the need for inclusivity, as part of the School production the children were taught sign language . They were joined on stage by two of the waiters from SAFI, Gloria and Laide singing and signing the show’s song ‘This Is Me’. The chorus is:

‘When the sharpest words wanna cut me down I'm gonna send a flood, gonna drown 'em out I am brave, I am bruised, I am who I'm meant to be,

This is Me.

Look out 'cause here I come And I'm marching on to the beat I drum I'm not scared to be seen, I make no apologies,

This is Me





There were many comments on how moving the song was.

Finally, as it is Easter the staff of SAFI enjoyed a meal of their usual rice, beans and spinach but with the addition of half a chicken and a soda!

 



Have a great Easter





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